Fantastic piece. Very concise- although I do believe talking about it with your partner does help quite a lot. I often mention fleeting crushes and sometimes even point out ones he probably needs to keep in check- the onus of responsibility goes both ways. My partner and I will make efforts not to lead on or flirt with someone, a client, a friend of a friend, co-worker etc if we can sense they may have a crush. Don’t revel in attention no matter how rewarding the ego-boost may be.